Donating Hair – Donando el pelo
Cancer is a deadly disease, and in our modern world, we still have not found a cure. This illness effects nearly everyone. I do not know anyone that has not known at least one person that has suffered the ravishing devastation of this malady.
El cáncer es una enfermedad mortal y en nuestro mundo moderno, todavía no hemos encontrado una cura. Este padecimiento afecta a casi todo el mundo de alguna manera. No conozco a nadie que no conoce a ninguna persona que haya sufrido de esta enfermedad.
For many the effects of the cure are almost worse than the disease itself. Losing your hair due to chemotherapy can be a traumatic experience. In fact, for some losing hair is more distressing than losing breasts. After all breasts are easier to fake. That was the reason that my dear friend John started donating his hair. A good friend of his was devastated by the loss of her hair from cancer treatment.
Para muchos los efectos de los tratamientos son casi peores que la enfermedad actual. Perder el cabello por la quimioterapia puede ser una experiencia traumática. De verdad para unas perder el pelo es más difícil que perder los senos. Las tetas son más fáciles de fingir. Fue por esa razón que mi querido amigo John empezó a donar su pelo. Una buena amiga de él estaba devastada por la pérdida de su cabello por el tratamiento del cáncer.
He donated for the first time about seventeen years ago. I admired his selflessness for many years before deciding to donate myself. Since 2005 I have donated four times. John has donated a total of twelve times or just over one full wig, since they say that it takes an average of eleven donations to make a hair piece. Here are his most recent before and after pictures with his dog LeaH. This time he donated to Pantene’s Beautiful Lengths campaign.
El donó por la primera vez hace diecisiete años más o menos. Yo admiraba su altruismo por muchos años antes de decidir donar yo mismo. Desde el 2005 he donado cuatro veces. John lo ha hecho doce veces o un poquito más que una peluca completa, porque se dice que el promedio para hacer una peluca son once donaciones. Aquí están las fotos antes y después de su última donación con su perra LeaH. Esta vez, él dio el pelo a la campaña de Beautiful Lengths de Pantene.
All of my donations and many of John’s have been to Locks of Love. According to their website, “Locks of Love is a public non-profit organization that provides hairpieces to financially disadvantaged children in the United States and Canada under age 21 suffering from long-term medical hair loss from any diagnosis.”
Todas mis donaciones y muchas de las de John han sido de Locks of Love. Según su página web, es una organización sin ánimo de lucro que aporta pelucas a niños que sufren económicamente en Estados Unidos y Canadá de menos de 21 años de edad que sufren de una pérdida de larga duración por cualquier diagnóstico.
I do not have any before or after pictures of my first couple of donations. My most memorable donation was shortly after Douglas and I got married. I grew my hair out for several years before the wedding. Here is a picture of my father walking me down the aisle.
No tengo fotos de mis primeras donaciones, pero la más memorable fue poco después de nuestro matrimonio. Había dejado crecer el pelo por muchos años antes de la boda. Aquí hay una foto de mi padre y yo entrando en la iglesia.
Mere weeks after that date, my hair was driving me crazy. For years I had wanted to try shaving my head but had been too timid to go through with it. Finally, I decided that it was time. I boldly walked into the living room with Douglas’ clippers in hand and asked him to shave my head. You can well imagine how a newly married man might be averse to doing so, but he was caught in a catch 22. He had to risk my anger at his failing to do what I had asked of him or risk that I would be mad at him for actually doing it if I were to change my mind. Luckily for him, I never regretted my decision. I am not sure that I would ever do it again, but I am glad that I tried it once. I did not go completely bald. He used the longest setting of the clippers.
Unas pocas semanas después de esa fecha, el pelo me volvía loca. Por años había querido probar cómo sería rasparme la cabeza, pero había sido demasiada tímida de hacerlo. Por fin decidí que ya era hora. Con atrevimiento entré en la sala con el cortapelos de Douglas en la mano y le pedí que me raspara la cabeza. Puede imaginar cómo un hombre, recién casado, podría tener miedo de hacer tal cosa, pero le era un círculo vicioso. Tenía que arriesgarse sufrir mi rencor por no hacer lo que yo quería o por hacerlo si cambiaba de idea. Por suerte no me arrepentí mi decisión. No creo que lo haré otra vez, pero estoy contenta de haberlo hecho al menos una vez. No estaba completamente calva. Douglas usó la montura más larga de la máquina.
Since July of 2012, my hair has been growing rapidly. It is hard to believe that it had gotten to this length so quickly. I guess I have healthy hair!
Desde el julio del 2012 mi cabello había estado creciendo rápidamente. Es difícil creer que había llegado a este largo tan velozmente. ¡Será que tengo pelo saludable!
As my hair is curly, you really cannot even tell how long it really was.
Como mi pelo es muy rizado ni se podia ver qué tan largo era de verdad.
Last weekend I was down in Maryland visiting family and asked my cousin to cut my hair for me so that I could donate again. Sorry for the bad pictures, but I forgot my camera. The beautiful pregnant lady is my cousin Sara, and if you live near Frederick, Maryland, I highly recommend that you visit her for a haircut.
El fin de semana pasado estaba en Maryland visitando a mi familia y pedí a mi prima que me cortara el cabello para que pudiera donarlo otra vez. Siento tener tan malas fotos, pero había dejado la cámara en casa. La mujer bella y embarazada es mi prima Sara y si vive cerca de Frederick, Maryland, sugiero que vaya a visitarla para que le corte el cabello.
There was a lot of hair to donate! I hope that some girl’s life is improved just a bit by my gift. It is the least I can do. As for me, I am going to save a ton of money on shampoo, if I can just remember to stop using so much!
¡Había mucho pelo para donar! Sólo espero que la vida de alguna chica se mejore un poquito por mi regalo. Es lo mínimo que puedo hacer. ¿Y yo? Yo ahorraré mucho dinero en champú, ¡si puedo recordar de no usar tanto!
I am thrilled with my new haircut. No disrespect to Douglas, but this style is much more becoming than the one that my loving husband gave me.
Estoy felicísima con mi nuevo corte de pelo. Sin faltarle respeto a Douglas, este estilo me queda mejor que el que me dio mi esposo cariñoso.
Happy Homemaking!
¡Que todos sus sueños caseras se cumplan!
Since none of you were there, you can only guess what happened when she came to me with those damn clippers. I argued, I refused, argued some more, pleaded, begged, argued, refused pleaded… This went on for quite a while before I gave in. I’m almost drew up a contract for her to sign swearing that she forced me to do it against my will and that she would not hold me responsible for the outcome. I did finally give in, and slept with one eye open for the next month…
Oh, it was not that dramatic! What a faker.
I noticed in some of your recent pix how long and pretty your hair was. Good for you for donating it! What a loving gesture. Your new haircut is really cute–perfect for your curls. This is something not everyone can do. My hair is wimpy and fine, so I can’t grow it long enough to donate. Btw, your friend’s LeaH is adorable!!
My cousin is a genius with hair! She knows exactly the perfect style every time. LeaH is a newly adopted pet, and I still have not had the fortune to meet her. Hopefully it will happen soon. Did you hear that, John?
Love your new cut and especially the reason for it. By the time I considered donating my hair it had been colored (for decades) and so was unsuitable. I’ve been trying to talk my son, who has gorgeous hair, into letting his grow for this reason. I don’t think he’s convinced. Jo @ Let’s Face the Music
Why do men get the best hair?! Have your son read the post and see if he will change his mind?
cute. i just saw on facebook, though, that locks for love actually charges people for the donated hair?!?! the people who posted that recommended another organization, but i didn’t take note. just fyi. your new do is perfect for the summer months!
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That is not true!!! I hate when people post lies about charities. I donate the hair directly to them, and all they request is my name and address. I actually prefer long hair in the summer so that it is not on my neck, but I think that it will be long enough to put in a small ponytail by the time it gets really hot. Also, I am thinking that it might snow this summer because the weather has been so crazy.
what a wonderful thing to do! i know a few people who always donate their hair to locks of love. you look beautiful with long and with short hair. your beautiful locks will make someone very happy.
Thank you!
Quite a generous thing to do, but organizations like Iocks of love sell the hair for a couple dollars per ponytail, and they get way more than they can use. I give blood and enrolled in the marrow donor program. I hate needles, but blood saves lives, so I roll up my sleeves.
Donating marrow and blood are excellent. I am O- blood type, the universal donor, and should donate more than I do. However, I still believe that it is important to donate hair. Locks of Love is transparent about the fact that they sell hair that they do not use, but that money is used to run the charity. I do not see anything wrong with that. They give thousands of wigs every year to children that could not afford them on their own. I feel lucky to be a part of it.
It’s funny because I saw a report on TV recently about a hairdresser in a nearby town that keeps hair for an association of women fighting cancer. I’m considering helping, but I would never dare go as short as you. But your post is definitely encouraging.
I used to be scared to go short, but I enjoy the change. I do like it long too.